♥ Friday, August 29, 2008
I just had the urge of blogging now, with nothing in mind to blog about.
I was at A&E yesterday, AS A VISITOR! My hubby's the patient. He's finally not able to take the terrible pain on his tummy that he woke me up early to get him to the hospital.
AND how disappointed was I in A&E waiting area. It seems like I'm waiting in Polyclinics!
Gosh! Singapore's government hospital should change its ways to treating A&E(emergency) patients. They just simply let anyone that is more serious to overtake the less serious ones in the queue. Theoriodically it is right for serious patients to be treated to first. BUT, if it's not urgent, emergency, and painful, those 'not so serious' ones would have gone to polyclinic instead!
I complained about this to Hubby and he was laughing at me with his pains! True what, I took half-day leave to wait at A&E department mah! Its such a laughing-stock siax!
*sianx*
And then the doctor told us that it is constipation? HOW can one not know that he/she is suffering from constipation? AND how the hell will constipation last for more than a month? However, I'm quite glad that it is JUST CONSTIPATION where it signals off the other SERIOUS ILLNESS such as stomach ulcer. However, we still have to wait for the specialist to announce safe on Monday first before we could assume that it's constipation! BUT gosh! I'm still feeling 'yuan wang' to have waited for so long!
And now, I doesn't know why do I talk about hospital system when I wanted to just comment that I doesn't know what to have for lunch! Great too, spent my time!
And YUP, back to the general topic. What should I have for lunch later? I feel so much tempted to have NASI LEMAK again and WANTON MEE at the same time! Gosh, what has happened to me? And I've decided. I shall have.... .... .... FISHBALL KUAY TEOW!!!
And I've nothing to blog about again. Games at Viwawa wasn't fun today... I kept on losing and I doesn't want to continue any further... I will be leveled down soon!
*bored*
..............................BYEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!.................................
TO YULIN & YINQING, I TYPE THAT MISSING ENTRY FOR U TWO:
A Couple's Heartbreak
A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for work so he asked the wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. The mother, preoccupied in the kitchen, totally forgot the matter.
The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle and, fascinated with its colour, drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed, the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.
When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words.
What do you think were the four words?
The husband just said, "I Love You Darling".
The husband's totally unexpected reaction is proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besideds, if only he have taken time to keep the bottle away, this will not have happened. No point in attaching blame. SHe had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.
Sometimes we spend time asking who is responsible or who to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. We miss out some warmth in human relationship in giving each other support. After all, shouldn't forgiving someone we love be the easiest thing in the world to do? Treasure what you have. Don't multiply pain, anguish and suffering by holding on to forgiveness.
If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be fewer problems in the world.
Take off all your envies, jealousies, unwillingness to forgive, selfishness, and fears and you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.
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